The Bad News About Bridal Business Follow Up

Is your follow up driving brides away?

When we surveyed our wedding vendor friends and clients in preparation for the Automatic Expert System free video series, I was surprised at one of the popular questions that came in…

How often should I follow up without being “pushy?”

We all hate getting sold to, so why would we want to do that to someone else?

The Bad News

Many wedding vendors let the fear of being “pushy” keep them from following up the 5-12 times it takes to actually book the wedding. If you only take one thing from the articles and videos we’ve been sharing, take this…

Lack of follow up and poor follow up = Loss of money for your wedding business.

The Good News

You CAN follow up frequently without being “pushy” and driving brides away with a sales pitch. The answer is to quit selling and start helping instead.

When your goal is to book the wedding, you naturally put on your “sales” hat. You start giving a sales pitch, and that sales pitch is a turn off to brides and grooms. Yes, it’s “pushy.”

What you need to do is focus on HELPING the bride instead.

The goal of each interaction with the bride should be to leave her better off…even if she never books you.

The Automatic Expert System is built on this principle. You can follow up as many times as you want without being pushy as long as you’re helping her.

To accomplish this, make sure your follow up is 75% “give” (that’s the helping part) and 25% “take” (that’s the selling part.)

Even the selling part is subtle. It’s more like, “Want more help? Do this…” It’s that powerful call to action that leads them directly to the booking.

This is completely different than the way most wedding vendors follow up, and it’s much more effective. It’s what makes the Automatic Expert System so powerful.

Become the trusted expert and friend first through that automatic follow up. Then the selling part is completely natural. No “pushiness” required. 

We’re sharing more of our most successful follow up strategies and tips in a series of new videos just for wedding businesses. Watch this video to learn more…

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The Four Golden Rules of Wedding Business Follow Up

How many times do you follow up your wedding leads?

The very sad truth is that most wedding vendors follow up only once…and sometimes not at all!…and even that follow up happens more than 24 hours after the lead rolls in.

Want to boost your wedding bookings without adding any extra marketing or advertising expenses? Follow the 4 Golden Rules of Follow Up.

The 4 Golden Rules of Follow Up:

  1. Follow Up Fast.
  2. Follow Up Frequently.
  3. Follow Up With Multiple Methods.
  4. Follow Up Creatively.

Let’s look at these individually…

Golden Rule #1 – Follow Up Fast.

He who follows up the fastest gets the booking. It demonstrates professionalism, availability and reliability…all of which is very important to the bride.

Studies show that the best time to follow up is WITHIN 5 MINUTES. Waiting even one hour decreases your likelihood of contacting the bride or groom by 21 times.

Golden Rule #2 – Follow Up Frequently.

If you aren’t following up at least 5 times, you are missing out on 80% of your potential bookings!

This is because most sales are not made until the 5th to 12th contact. (Kellogg School of Management)

Golden Rule #3 – Follow Up With Multiple Methods.

Brides and grooms may ignore your email, or it may get stuck in spam.

But if you also follow up with a direct mail piece (that’s good for good old-fashioned snail mail), a friendly telephone call, and they see your ad on Facebook, there’s a good chance that at least ONE of those methods is going to reach them.

When you follow up in multiple mediums, each exposure makes an impression on the couple, and you increase the chances of a response exponentially.

Golden Rule #4 – Follow Up Creatively.

One of the biggest mistakes wedding vendors make with their follow up…besides not following up at all…is following up exactly like everyone else.

If you want the bride or groom to respond, your follow up must be:

  • Attention getting.
  • Interesting.
  • Include a compelling call to action that earns the response.

That’s right; you have to EARN a response. If you want the bride to actually respond to your feedback, you’ve got to give her a very good reason to contact you.

We’re sharing more of our most successful follow up strategies and tips in a series of new videos just for wedding businesses. Watch this video to learn more…

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More Ways to Get Your Emails Delivered

There are a certain amount of emails that you send that are not delivered. Often this is because someone gave you a fake email address, or used an email account that they only use for spam messages. However, there are ways for you to get the rest of your emails delivered, as well as keeping your email list clean of these “fake” emails.

It may be the easiest option to automatically add every new bride who opts in to your main email list. However if you want to continue marketing to your full list and get good results it is better to have a middle step. This is to create a list for new sign ups. Once you’ve seen that your emails are delivered you can go back at the end of the week and add it to the rest of your list.

Your wheels in your mind should be turning about now. Your email list isn’t just a bucket that everyone gets dumped it. It is a list that you have to treat more like a garden. You plant the seeds and get them growing into seedlings before you plant them outdoors. This is how you get strong plants, and build a strong email list. Take an active role in weeding through your bridal leads and email list. There is no point in emailing someone on an ongoing basis if they have never replied to you in the first place. Make sure to read the article by Cynthia Clark to get more technical ideas on how to get your emails delivered and read. What do you think?

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The Profit Paradox: How to Make More Money by Marketing to Fewer Clients

 

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Question: Should I change to a broader business name so people don’t think I just do weddings?

I just closed my store front, but will be continuing online.I sell flowers and gifts for all occasion, I’m debating whether to change myname for the business. From Flowers and Gifts by Sarnia Weddings to Pat’sFlowers and Gift Gallery.

I think one of my mistakes is that people thought I was just for weddings.

What do you think?

Pat

Answer:

Pat,

When we’re selling our stuff, we usually think broadening our target market will bring us more business. The more people who can buy our products, the more we can sell, right?

Strangely enough, that isn’t true.

People are bombarded with a million advertising messages on the internet, TV, print, etc. A broad and generic offer doesn’t even get noticed. The more broad your offer, the less attention you get.

On the other hand, the more specific and focused your message is on one particular customer, the more powerful your message will be. When you have a narrow, targeted offer, the right customer will recognize it immediately and be drawn to it.

With all of that said, answer this question:

What is the 20% of your floral business that makes 80% of your profits?

If wedding flowers generate the majority of your revenue, focus on wedding flowers. If holiday flower delivery makes the most money, focus on that. Don’t be like the other generic companies who specialize in “everything;” choose a narrow focus and dominate that market.

Then name your business to represent that specialty.

Another idea: since you’ll be running your business online, you can easily create TWO websites if you’d like to focus on two markets. This way you can still laser target your message just for the ideal clients you want to attract.

We wish you every success in your business!

Stephanie

P.S. Since you’re considering a name change, make sure you buy a website domain name that includes the keywords people would type in to find you, even if your business name is different. Such as ontarioweddingflowers.com or ontarioflowerdelivery.com. This will make it easy for the right people to find you online when they’re searching.

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The 8 Secrets of Wedding Businesses Who Thrive in Any Economy

 


Do you stay up at night wondering how your competition does it? Are you spending all of your time trying to figure out exactly where you can get better, high-end bride leads? Or any leads at all?

When you start a business, you do your research, you talk to those you hope to emulate, and then you walk into the deep end (so to speak). Hopefully, you have a sound business model to follow, but even if you do, there are bound to be hiccups along the way.

The one thing that you cannot control is the competition. What are the secrets of the “Big Guys” that make getting leads and booking weddings look so easy?

So you need to think like them. Use their tricks, their experience, and make it yours.

Want to know more?

Learn the 8 Secrets of Wedding Business Thrivers and find out how you measure up. Click this link.


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Getting Facebook Likes Is More Valuable Than Ever

 

Facebook_LikeIf you are working on getting more Likes to your Facebook Fan page there is more incentive now than ever before. Right now Facebook is running a contest which ends April 1 to give 10 small businesses $10,000 for getting the most new Likes. Make sure to read the article by Brittany Darwell for more information.

Even if you don’t enter the contest, realize that each Like you get on Facebook is the same as a bridal lead. If you have a custom tab with an opt-in form to your newsletter you can nurture those leads both through Facebook updates, and email. Remember that each lead is valuable, no matter where it comes from and make sure that your sales funnels are all connected so that you don’t lose leads along the way. What do you think?

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How To Use Follow-Up Emails To Turn Brides From Leads To Clients

 

ConsultationOne of the biggest things wedding businesses deal with is getting their leads to turn into actual customers. Typically you are dealing with brides who are ready to buy and are planning their weddings. So what can you do to encourage the sale?

According to Corey Eridon’s article the best plan of action is to use lead nurturing emails. Instead of just trying to sell to them realize that they still have to get to a point where they are ready to make the commitment. Send follow up emails that don’t have the tone of “where are you? Please buy my stuff!” and instead use those emails to educate the bridal leads about your business, what you do, why they need you, how great your product is, as well as tips and advice to help them with their wedding planning. What is your biggest struggle in getting brides to go from leads to clients?

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How to Get More Leads and Book ‘Em

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Question: How do I find the leads that want my service and figure out how to package and price my services so that they are desirable?

Hello Stephanie,

I’m sure you get hundreds of emails from around the world and I know I’ve responded to your “what is your biggest problem” query before.
Like many folk in the industry one of my pain points is getting leads. My site ranks high up on the Google searches for local towns and anything to do with wedding photography and I get most of my wedding leads from wedding fairs.

But I don’t think that is the biggest pain point.

The biggest pain point is definitely related though.

My biggest pain point is *connecting* with my market segment to find out a) what they want and b) at what price.

To explain:

I do wedding/portrait/baby work.

For baby photography I buy in leads and cold call them. But finding out exactly what packages to offer is a bit tricky. I set up camp in a baby boutique one day to find out what mums thought of the products, what they would want in an ideal collection and what they felt each item and their ideal collection was worth. The boutique had 3 clients the whole day!

For wedding work most of my leads come through wedding fairs. Certainly if you listen to industry pundits one should be raising prices not lowering them otherwise you are competing with the “bottom feeders” and getting too many “tire kickers”. But as I drove back from the last but one wedding booking that I have for the whole YEAR yesterday (at a time I should be in full swing) I was musing that my target of at least £1000 (GBP) from a wedding is all very well but I’d rather have 40 weddings netting £500 than the 12 that I have had at a higher rate. 12×1000 = £12,000 and 40×500 = £20,000. Yes it is more work but it would put food on the table. It is just possible (likely) that I am priced too high. Or am I? Only potential clients can tell me.

The issue is twofold:

  1. the cycle time for weddings is so long with brides booking 6-12 months in advance, that if you get it “wrong” and price too high or too low then you don’t know for a year (i.e. until it is too late and you have gone under).
  2. the very people that one would like to ask exactly what they want – the brides that have yet to find you and ask you “how much” – seem to be like quicksilver: impossible to get hold of.

There are a lot of similarities between “new mums” and “new brides”. There is an obvious “gestation period” during which they are dreaming of all the things that will happen when they get there and yet whilst they are only dreaming they often don’t do the research and talk to people about their dreams. They often have very limited budgets at this moment. They have not been there before (often) so they don’t know what to expect or how much it will cost. Therefore providing for those dreams at an appropriate price point is really hard.

And of course – if I could get to those people to find out what they want and what they really have to spend then they would be the best (the very best) source of new leads coming into my business: the ones to offer my fantastic packages to, the packages designed just for them and a price they want and can afford.

So it is catch 22: how to find the leads that want my service vs how to find people to ask how I might package and price my services so that they are desirable.

I hope that helps. If you have suggestions do let me know! :D

Cheers,

Mark

Answer:

Mark,

Excellent questions. It’s difficult to pinpoint the issue without knowing the specifics of your business and market. However, here’s what comes to mind…

On finding clients:

Typically, the leads that you buy are extremely cold and your response rate will be quite low. Unless you can find a way to follow up with these leads automatically or with a stream-lined system, it will take a lot of time without yielding much in the way of results. Your time and energy may be better spent elsewhere.

The best way to find leads is to think about where your ideal clients are hanging out directly BEFORE and AFTER they do business with you. These businesses make terrific partners for you because they are non-competitors.

For example, in the baby business, your idea about the baby boutique is right on target. But hanging out in the store is not the best use of your time, especially if they only have three clients walk in! Instead, can you come up with an offer the boutique could give to their new customers? Such as getting a free or discounted baby portrait?

One of our photographer clients has success booking family portrait sessions with what she calls “mini-shoots.” She offers $5 mini-shoots and then makes money on the prints. It works to bring in families with children and build repeat business. She also offers vouchers at places that host children’s parties and entertainment. The locations love the coupons because it makes them look good, and it brings in business for her.

For brides, you’ll want to network and partner with the businesses she books just before you. This is a probably locations and entertainment services. Find a way to help them and build a relationship, and the right one will send dozens or even hundreds of leads your way.

Even competitors can be an excellent source of leads, though you have to proceed with caution. Invite a photographer you admire to lunch, praise their work, and ask them for tips and advice about how to grow your business. The right person who loves to help others will send you a ton of overflow leads when they are booked. We personally booked literally hundreds of jobs from the referrals of just ONE competitor DJ!

On figuring out the price:

“It is just possible (likely) that I am priced too high. Or am I? Only potential clients can tell me.”

You’re smart for turning to your potential clients to determine what they want. However, when it comes to price your clients will NOT be the best resource when you ask them directly.

Why? Because it’s very difficult for us as humans to figure out the value of something, especially if we have no experience with it, which is almost always the case with couples planning a wedding.

You can ask them how much they think something is worth, but value is so relative that the only way to measure it is their response to an actual offer. The worth of something is based on the importance they place on it.

When you ask a potential client what they want, most of the time they simply don’t know. They aren’t going to look at your list of services and see what they’re looking for because they don’t know how to recognize it.

The real answer to what they want isn’t a price or package; it’s an emotion or result. For example, brides want to remember the wedding forever; they don’t want to miss anything on the day; they want to have proof that they were young and beautiful; they want to feel special. Parents don’t want their kids to grow up; they want to brag about their children.

Our challenge is to understand what the client really wants…those emotions, fears and desires…and communicate clearly to them that our products and services will provide it.

So you’re right; it’s critical to understand what they want first. You can do this by asking them a series of questions (we call them Rapport Building Questions) and then feeding back what they say so that they know you understand. Then you can recommend a service that will give them what they want.

Is your price too high? Here’s a good rule of thumb:

  • If you book less than 50% of the people you meet with, drop your price. This drop should be temporary so that you’re making money while you work on improving your marketing, sales and communication.
  • If you book more than 85% of the people you meet with, it’s time to raise your prices again.

Especially with the baby market, test out different packages (offer no more than 3 at a time) and track the reaction. Even small changes make a big difference in response.

We did some work with one of our photographer clients by helping her test out different packages for the school photo market and the results were quite amazing.

We wish you every success!

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3 Simple Ways to Get More Leads From Your Wedding Website

If you’ve got a website and you want to really use it to get more bridal leads for your business, check out this article from Planner Panda at the link below.  A website should be so much moneymore than a pretty brochure!

Get More Conversions for Your Online Wedding Business

You’ll learn:

  • The “power word” and strategy you can use to use get brides to happily give you permission to email them.
  • The 2 phrases to use that studies show get the best response from website visitors.
  • The feature most wedding vendor websites are missing that transforms your website into a powerful lead generation tool that works for you 24 hours a day.

Don’t just read this article.  Do what it suggests!  These guys are right on the money.

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How to Get More Bridal Leads With Your Website

When most of us put up our very first website, we treated it a like a fancy brochure.  Instead of printing up tons of print materials and postcards, we could simply tell people, “Go to Piles of Moneywww.AllAboutMe.com to learn more about our business.”

The problem with that is that the only people who visit AllAboutMe.com are the few people who have already heard about us.

What about the thousands of potential brides and grooms who don’t know who we are?  Those are the ones we should be trying to reach.

That’s what your website needs to be doing for you. 

When used properly, your website is a non-stop lead generation tool that attracts your ideal clients, captures their contact information, follows up with them and leads to more booked weddings.

Wondering how to make this happen?  Christine Dyer of BridalTweet.com provides 8 ways you can get more leads with your website here:  Get More Bridal Leads With Your Website

Is your website working for you?  Leave a comment and share your success story!

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